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I am just weird sometimes because I don't like to talk all the time, and perhaps, I just don't talk to everyone and I may not be open to share my thoughts - most of the time. In a way, that could be a flaw to a marketing person, but... that's me! I realized I had that since young even with my family. I am sure most of you would have realized. Apparently, that could have something to do with dual-charater in Pisces. Therefore, instead of forcing myself to change anything, I keep myself "unique" by just being around and participate according to my own will/mood. The bottom line is... what you see may not be what you get; because I believed in true friendship, you will not feel awkward even if you are sitting face-to-face and speak nothing at all. The one that is closer to your heart may not be someone that you spend time everyday. If you couldn't get the message here, it is OK. That is simply because you are just not the intended receiver at all, aka we could be...

If you think you don't seem to agree with your boss(es) or can't even believe in your product (doesn't matter if you are in sales or marketing or just HR or Admin), you should seriously think if there is a common ground/interest of you and your boss(es)/company (Please note getting salary fom the company is much more of an employee's interest). If the answer is "NO", start looking around - you may log on to jobsdb.com for a variety of job opportunities. In search of your next job, look for the company that shares the same value system that you do. If you need an adjustment to your package, instead of going to your superior and say:" Can I ask for a pay rise", perhaps you should ask yourself:"What have I contributed and how would I be able to contribute more?". If you couldn't even convince yourself, forget about wasting other people's time. If you are a degree holder and you think you deserved a better package just because you have ...

我， 过了不同凡响的一年。 过去的一年里，发生了许多事情，让我有一夜长大的感觉。 从年头开始筹备婚礼，搞了大半年，从小姐变成太太，责任加重了许多。不过，找对了另一半，是绝对幸福的事， 生活也变得更有意义。 刚蜜月回来，公司高层即出现人事调动，我的生活开始面临双重的挑战。 新上司上任后，便开始学习适应，并要协助领导其余的队友们一起往同一阵线迈进。一边学习，一边带动，乐趣无穷，但也非常的辛苦-了解书到用时方恨少的窘境。 一整年来，最大的收获是在人与人之间的相处。了解到亲情的可贵；见证了人性恶毒，愚蠢的一面；体会了团结的力量。希望新的一年里，可以增加智慧，大家可以走出黑暗 今年到处也很乱， 天灾没有休止，很多人还在不停的打仗，人与人之间不断的争锋相对，搞得民不聊生。很多人拼命在搞外遇，更多人舍身让人乱搞。还有一群不知是环境还是教育的牺牲品， 不知天高地厚，还一副很自以为是的态度。但愿新的一年里，一些都会有正面的转变。 无论如何，还是一句老话 – 新年进步！

2009 has been really amazing and it is filled with love and appreciations. The ties between people can really create wonderful pictures to one's life. Of course, I also learnt and grow from the challenges + obstacles and it is really exciting to see myself be able to come so far. I am sure Twenty-Ten gonna be a better one. I hope those who I care enjoy peace, health, love and happiness. Mmuaks! "Take the move to make a change - it's all in our hands"

Well, after disappearing for 6 months, I am back! I wasn’t missing because I went on UFO, but life has changes quite a bit and I am getting really busy with stuff. I didn’t get to see little Billion on that Friday in my last blog. It was for quite a while after that, I got to peep on him from the window outside the hospital twice. He was infected by Toxo virus in his brain and fought for it for closed to 3 months. Then he left us peacefully. It was in one way a pain, but in other way relieve to the family. The key point is we want the best for Billion and I think he had got the best for his life. My wedding went on. We were really happy to see our family and friends that send us their blessing and help up with the occasion. The entire process put us through a wonderful experience and strengthens the ties between our good friends and family members. The marriage so far is a dream come true and the experiences with the new family are making us better people in sharing and caring. It’s a ...

I was still in Monday blue as the past weekend was really tiring. We didn’t really sleep and we departed from home as early as 4a.m. on Sunday morning for betrothal in J.B and back. Everything went well and we felt really happy to have my future brother in law around to help up and drove throughout most of the journey. Some how I feel occasion like this also bring family members together. While I was busy kicking off the first day of the week by finalizing 2 proposals, I received a text from bro that we have got our first nephew – Billion. I was anxious to know more but there were very little information available. The Monday blues was gone and I started to spread the good news around. A little later after that, I received calls from my brother-in-law and mum. The process of delivery is smooth. Baby is fine but very tiny - only 1.8 kg, compared to normal baby that weight around 2.5 -3kg. Doctor has to keep Billion in ICU until he is ready to go home. I am sure the entire family is very...

Life is getting so much busier… Gosh, I am missing from here for close to 2 months. Basically, what happened was, we have finally announced our wedding and the past 2 months are all about the preparations. Other than our regular family dinners, we filled our weekends, rest days and public holidays finalizing pre-wedding albums, wedding dinner invitation cards; preparing the guest list, song list, selecting photographers, videographers, make-up artists, best men and bridesmaid; shopping for auspicious items needed; started out wedding web site; sending our invitations & RSVP etc… Of course, the most remarkable one is our Registration of Marriage that happened on 20th May in Putrajaya. Since we started that page of our life there, things are getting a little different. We both have an additional “accessory”/ring on our wedding figures and I think we feel like “real adults” now being married. :) We have also gone through some “turbulence” throughout the preparation, but that helped us...